After the love market, the boy found a lover. The boy tries to pull the girl home to be his wife. The wife pulling procedure is mandatory. If not pulled, no girl agrees to marry the guy. Since pulling the bride back, the groom's family arranged the bride and bridesmaids to sleep together for three nights. On the third day, the groom's family took the bride home to change clothes. The bride's family organizes a meal for the groom's family. During this meal, the girl happily answered and agreed to be the bridegroom's wife, the girl packed up her husband's house to start a new life. The preparations for the wedding began. If the girl just arrived at the girl's house, crying and begging her parents not to go back to the boy's house, no wedding will be held, the marriage will end there.

To prepare for the wedding, the groom's family must meet enough wedding gifts such as pigs, wine, chicken, cash, cigarettes .... After choosing a good day and month, the groom's family brings the gift to the bride's house to celebrate. wedding ceremony. When going to pick up the bride, half the way, everyone chooses a place to have lunch, take chicken, break sticky rice, give each person a piece of meat and a handful of sticky rice to eat. Before eating, the head of the organizers does control to chase away evil spirits so that everyone can go to their destination, so that the couple will not be harassed by evil spirits in the future so that the parents, bride and groom can live in harmony. fit.

After eating, everyone went back to the girl's house. Going to the bride's house, they will verify and hand over the gift that the girl's family has challenged, if all the gifts are full, the wedding ceremony will be held immediately. After organizing the wedding at the bride's house, the well-off people hold a second wedding at the groom's house, this organization only has the meaning of giving thanks to the maids.

To learn about the wedding customs of the Mong people, come to Sapa at the end of the year. This is the best time of the year to choose to hold a wedding. If you do not have the patience to wait for a real wedding, please visit the Tourism Promotion Information Center on November 28 and December 5, 2020. Here we will recreate the wedding.

Phan Phuong.